Honesty is the Key

It’s always a gift to look at where you’ve been and who you once were. Have you grown emotionally … spiritually … morally? Or have you side-stepped areas you need to revisit? Is it too painful to look back? Are there areas that you walked away from that need your attention? Honesty is the key here if you want to really want to find the peace that’s been elusive for so long.

Don’t be hard on yourself

Taking stock can be difficult. But realize, by doing just that shows a boost in your self-awareness. So congratulate yourself. You’re on your way to embracing a new level of peace.

Challenge yourself

Think about those in your past. Is there a relationship that ended poorly? Wouldn’t it be a relief if you had a do-over? Ponder a moment. You’re already being completely honest with yourself. Picture what it would be like to face that person on the street. Would you be able to look them in the eye, or would you need to look away?

We can find encouragement to help do this. You would expect this to be in scripture.

If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. –
Romans 12:18

But it’s also found elsewhere.

If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. –
Alcoholics Anonymous, Step 8

Open yourself

Are you surprised, as a Christian author and speaker,  I would site non-churchy sources? Don’t be. Wisdom can be found in all sorts of areas. Take notice of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and other compulsive-fighting groups that are looking for peace. Don’t be surprised when you see their roots are in scriptural principles. They might not give you chapter and verse, but they share with you the wisdom it takes to find peace.

But honesty is the key. That, along with self-examination. Give it a go … and let me know what you find.

What say you?

What do you wonder about?  Are you happy … or are you doing what you never thought you’d do? Do you see consistencies … or are you all over the place? Drop me a line. I’d love to chat.

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